The community we are building

Meet people who get it.

Kiki opens the door. The connections between members will help make this a place to return to: conversations about friendships, marriage, work, changing plans, holidays, humor, and the everyday parts of life with pain.

We are here to support one another in living a life with pain. This will be peer support, not medical care or therapy.

Room for honesty. Care for one another.

• Share your own experience. Do not diagnose another member or tell them which medication, supplement, or treatment to use or stop.
• Listen before offering suggestions. Ask whether someone wants ideas or simply wants to be heard.
• Hard feelings are welcome. Nobody needs to find a silver lining, prove their faith, or compete over whose pain is worse.
• Respect boundaries and privacy. Share only what feels comfortable, and do not repost another member’s story or identifying details without permission.
• Keep encouragement free of sales pitches, miracle-cure claims, harassment, and pressure.

Before membership opens, we will put moderation, reporting, and member privacy controls in place. Community participation remains closed while that work is prepared.